Simple Living

I'm planning again another visit to Hawaii and Japan.  I'll be spending 2 weeks between Honolulu, Osaka and Tokyo.  As I've traveled to both numerous times, this is more for me to relax and visit new things. Prices are pretty good this year and exchange rates are favorable making it cheaper than my 2023 trip. Planned Itinerary 4 days - Honolulu 4 days - Osaka 7 days - Tokyo Total of 15 days.

I was able to upgrade my HP ab292nr - 6th gen Intel i7-6700HQ laptop to Windows 11.  This extends the life of this laptop for at least 5-7 more years as I only need it for minor tasks.  I'm not quite sure what to do now as my older 4th gen Linux laptop is also going strong. Max Upgrades - RAM and SSD I upgraded the ab292nr to 16GB RAM and 1TB SSD which have helped improve performance, although might be overkill, DDR3 RAM is so cheap (~$12) its one of those why not? decisions. Purpose? I always want to have one computer for each current OS and use this daily for Web, Word and Excel.  Although, it's been upgraded to Win11, I'm hesitant to trust it for more secure work and reserve that for the iMac M3 and later a Macbook Air. It was kinda fun tinkering with this thing and finding ways to extend its life approaching 10 years (bought in 2016).

My 2025 Wardrobe Refresh: A Balanced, Minimalist Approach For 2025, I’ve given my wardrobe a major refresh, replacing almost all my shirts. Some of them had been in rotation for four years and no longer looked their best. Since shirts are relatively inexpensive to replace, I’ve decided on a simple rule: each shirt gets 30 daily wears before being retired. With 12 shirts in my rotation, that means they’ll last me a full year (360 days). I’ve also replaced both my jeans and shorts.  As they are also inexpensive I’ll replace them annually as well and budget them for 180 daily wears as a benchmark for replacement. Total is about $300 per year to achieve this.  Not that bad at all. Streamlining to a 50-Item Wardrobe I’ve also standardized my entire wardrobe to 50 items, which strikes a perfect balance between redundancy and choice—enough variety to cover all occasions without feeling overwhelming. This setup keeps my style consistent and effortless while ensuring I always have fres...

My Toyota Journey: From Corolla to Highlander and Beyond Lately, I've found myself becoming quite the Toyota fanboy . My experience with the 2011 Toyota Corolla , followed by the 2015 Camry and 2016 Highlander , has really impressed me. These cars have offered a perfect mix of reliability, performance, and value. However, my experience with Lexus, specifically the 2007 IS250 , wasn’t as smooth. I had some issues with the car, but I’m chalking that up to the challenges of Rear-Wheel Drive (RWD) and Direct Injection engines. Keeping the Highlander and Camry Until 2035-2036 I’ve decided to hold onto both the Highlander and Camry for their 20th year, which will be in 2035 and 2036 respectively. Part of this decision is due to the skyrocketing prices of new cars, but it also comes from my desire to wait for the new turbo and hybrid powertrains to mature. Take the Hybrid Max with the new T24A-FTS setup, for example. I’m certainly impressed with the 0-60 times and performance, but ...

Best Steakhouse Experience Yet in DFW: Del Frisco’s Double Eagle Top-Tier Location, Ambience, and Service Having only sampled a fraction of steakhouses in DFW, I can confidently say that Del Frisco’s Double Eagle is a standout. The location, ambience, and attentive service set the tone for an exceptional dining experience. Quality from Start to Finish Everything from the appetizers to desserts was outstanding. For my main course, I enjoyed a 16 oz prime ribeye steak, cooked to a perfect medium rare, with a flavorful garlic butter sauce. The oysters were surprisingly delicious for a steakhouse, proving the quality across their entire menu. Must-Try Recommendations Based on recommendations, I tried the mashed potatoes and warm butter cake, and they lived up to the hype. Paired with a classic Caesar or Cobb Salad wedge, these sides rounded out the meal perfectly. A Repeat Visit in the Future Del Frisco’s Double Eagle has earned a spot on my list for future visits. With eve...

Reflections on a Decade of Blogging: Embracing Habits, Change, and Minimalism  A Journey of Self-Discovery Through Blogging  Since I started this blog in 2014, I’ve witnessed an evolution in my own thinking, goals, and self-understanding. This space has become a platform to look back, appreciate past lessons, and set a more intentional path forward. Reflecting on my experiences here has been instrumental in shaping the direction of my future, helping me find what truly matters. Accepting My Nature as a Creature of Habit One of the biggest surprises, though it shouldn’t be anymore, is how much I am drawn to certain routines. Like many people, I’m a creature of habit. Initially, I resisted this tendency, feeling that constantly pursuing novelty might bring greater rewards. Over time, however, I realized that embracing these patterns brings a sense of comfort and satisfaction. Rather than resist, I’ve learned to lean into those habits that enrich my life. Balancing Familiarity wi...

BBQ Review: Pecan Lodge in Deep Ellum, Dallas, Texas I recently visited Pecan Lodge in Deep Ellum, Dallas, to check out their BBQ. It was a solid experience overall, though I wouldn’t go as far as to call it the best BBQ around. Here’s a breakdown of what I tried: The Meat Selection Beef Rib : Easily the highlight of the meal—tender, flavorful, and satisfying. Brisket : Decent quality, but it didn’t quite reach the level of other well-known Texas BBQ spots. Pulled Pork : A bit of a letdown, as it was on the dry side. Sides That Stand Out Where Pecan Lodge really shines is in its sides. Compared to other BBQ spots like Hutchins or Rudy’s, their Cole Slaw and Potato Salad are standouts—delicious and well-seasoned, adding a fresh balance to the heavier BBQ flavors. If I could change one thing, I’d swap the rolls for classic white bread and would have preferred more onions alongside the pickles. A Sweet Finish Next Door Though Pecan Lodge doesn’t offer pecan pie, their proximity to a ne...

October 2024 Everyday Carry (EDC) I've successfully streamlined my Everyday Carry (EDC) setup, fitting all my items into my front pockets by reducing weight. I opted for the 1-ounce lighter iPhone 16 (compared to my previous 7-ounce iPhone 14 Pro) and a slim Coach wallet , making it more comfortable to carry daily. I enjoy swapping between my various Victorinox models, with the Huntsman being a favorite for its utility. I also rotate between my Casio G-Shock 5600 and A168 watches, depending on my mood and the occasion. Current EDC Items Apple iPhone 16 Casio G-Shock 5600 Victorinox Manager (not pictured, on my car key ring) Victorinox Huntsman Coach Leather Card Wallet This combination offers a balance of functionality and style, ensuring I’m well-equipped for everyday tasks. First Aid For convenience, I also carry 2 band-aids and a wet wipe inside one of the card pockets of my wallet.  

Planning for 2025: Building a Thoughtful Wardrobe and Budget As 2024 comes to a close, I’m reflecting on my year and planning for what’s next. Each year, I set strategic goals that help increase my productivity in acquisitions and prevent impulsive spending. This structured approach keeps my wardrobe refined and tailored to my actual needs, with an emphasis on quality and thoughtful purchases. Affordable Learning One valuable lesson I’ve embraced is the importance of testing with affordable options before committing to high-ticket items. Lower-priced alternatives allow me to experiment, understand my preferences, and determine what’s truly worth investing in. This approach reduces waste and helps me make smarter, more intentional purchases. Investing When Ready Once I identify essentials, everything else becomes incremental. This method frees up my budget to focus on high-quality items that add significant value. For 2025, I’ve allocated my budget as follows: 2025 Budget Plan Shoes : $...

Adjusting to the iPhone 16: Essential Settings You Need to Know Switching from the iPhone 14 Pro to the iPhone 16 has brought some challenges, particularly when it comes to enabling certain features. Here’s a breakdown of the key adjustments you’ll want to make for a smoother experience, especially around vibrate mode and photo quality. Vibrate on Silent Shut off Live Photo Improve Photo Quality 1. Vibrate on Silent To enable vibrate mode when your ringer is set to silent, follow these steps: Go to : Settings Select : Sounds & Haptics Under Haptics , toggle Play in Silent Mode to ON. It’s a bit convoluted, and you might expect "Always Play" to mean the same thing, but it doesn’t. 2. Disable Live Photo While Live Photo is a fun feature, it can consume excessive storage. To turn it off, do the following: Go to : Settings Select : Camera Choose : Preserve Settings Toggle Live Photo to ON. This ensures that Live Photo remains disabled when you turn it off in Camera mode, de...

Reevaluating My Relationship with Alcohol While my overall alcohol consumption was low, having a drink almost daily began to take a toll on my body. I noticed that alcohol no longer provided the same satisfaction it once did. Even if it was just one beer or a glass of wine each day, it started to feel like a habit rather than a choice made for enjoyment. Taking a Break: Three Weeks of Abstinence To address this, I decided to abstain from alcohol for three weeks. Initially, I committed to just one week, but I quickly realized that I wanted to see how it felt over a longer period. So far, I’ve noticed a significant change—I no longer feel the same need for alcohol. The first day was definitely the toughest; I craved a beer. However, by the third day, that desire subsided, and after a full week, I found that I no longer had any urge to drink. While looking at an alcoholic beverage can still spark a bit of desire, it doesn’t carry the same weight as it did on that first day of abstaining. ...

Preparing for the iPhone 16: A Comparison with the 14 Pro With my new iPhone 16 arriving, I wanted to prepare a comparison to see how it stacks up against my 14 Pro. I’m anticipating a slightly lighter, faster phone, although I may be sacrificing a bit on the screen quality based on initial online reviews. That said, since I was already satisfied with the LCD display on my iPhone 11, I expect to be more than happy with the OLED on the 16. When comparing the specs, there isn’t much difference between the 14 Pro and the standard 16. My main reasons for choosing the 16 are the USB Type-C port and its lighter weight. Initial Review: iPhone 16—Good, Not Amazing Now that I’ve had my iPhone 16 for several days, I’m pleased with the form factor, lighter weight, and slightly improved specs. I do miss the superior 120 Hz refresh rate of the 14 Pro’s screen, but overall, the base model 16 feels like a better fit for me. While iPhones generally don’t have the best cameras compared to Samsung’s fla...

Samsung S20 Fan Edition: Still Impressive After 4 Years Even after more than four years since its release, the Samsung S20 Fan Edition (FE) remains an impressive Android phone that holds its own against modern devices, particularly budget models like the A32 and A15. This speaks volumes about how overpowered the specs were at the time of its launch. Affordable Price You can find used S20 FE models on Amazon for around $130 to $150, often in excellent condition. This makes it perfect as a backup phone or for streaming videos. With its stunning display, snappy processor, and substantial battery life, the S20 FE delivers an exceptional user experience. It encapsulates why many users love their devices: you don’t necessarily need the latest features; the right combination can create an amazing smartphone. S20 FE vs. A32: A Beautiful Screen Comparing the S20 FE to my A32, which I use for streaming, the AMOLED screen of the S20 FE truly stands out. Its vibrant colors and deep blacks make it ...